wouldnt it be a bit too late for a family/couples couselor now? seeing as the woman is in love with another man?

but i do agree that priority straightening and decision making needs to be sorted while the pregnancy is still in early days.

and yes you are right, this other man would like to be with this woman too and is in fact, an ex boyfriend. what i find funny is that this particular man she is in love with lives over 600 miles away from her so unless one of them moves, i find it stupid that she actually wants this man and dont see how they would have a proper relationship together