I can't settle on a career or what I want to do. I don't know why, but that's the way it is. Now i read that is a major symptom of BPD. although i am confused as to whether i am BPD or BiP, fact is, i have never been able to settle on a career or any goal, and now that i'm almost 40, i just want to pick something NOW.

How do i go about putting this symptom aside so that i can have a vocation like everyone else?

Every week i think, maybe i'll go to law school, no, MBA, no, chemist, no, data analyst.

HELP!!! What are the steps to try choose one or at least let go of or deal with whatever is causing this issue?