Jen I am really proud of you for doing this! I've had to do something similar only with my husbands family. They are gossipers and just feed off it. They think that because now I am not part of the "group' I am neglecting them and thier needs. I refuse to let their guilt trip on me get to me. Its their problem not mine. I used to do what they wanted all the time . No more. I have my own problems to deal with and that is enough. Glad your taking over your life as you want to and living it as you want. Good for you!!!!!

Hugz~
Bethy