I would honestly probably feel the same, RomanSunburn. If I felt an issue was unresolved and my significant other was sleeping, I would feel bothered too. I would feel bad about waking him/her up, though. Maybe he sees the situation different and don't see a problem lurking around or at least not a big problem that can't be dealt with at a later time. I wouldn't let it get to you thinking that he doesn't care, because he probably does but has a different perspective. Maybe you guys can set some time aside before bed to talk and this will ease some of your feelings?