I know this topic is old news but I so badly wish that I didn't care about my T the way I do! Does anyone have any new perspective on why therapy means so much? Why do we get upset if we have to miss a session and why do we agonize over the therapy relationship? Is it transference or real? Do we become "crazier" from therapy because of the relationship? Do Ts understand what we are going through or not? Why are so many of us in anguish about someone whom we are paying for a service?