thank you Tsol25!
We have been together for 2 1/2 years, known each other for almost 5 years.
He hasn't given me a reason to not trust him, with me as well its past issues (family in a bad way).
Drives me mad a little at times for I feel I'm being unjust to him... He hasn't done anything wrong and why be like this cause of others?

We do talk a lot, both of us with one another, which I agree with what you mention on communication makes it stronger. My dad always said the same thing almost my parents had a bad marriage I remember he told me one of the reason it failed was due to lack of communication and expression of feelings.
With texts my bf and I do the pic and messages once in a while to calm each other down we both have issues in this category thus his understanding my side, and we both talk.. He even with me about his fears....
Maybe in time it will get better? Maybe some therapy For me, I will get better with it? Get to my true issue with trust :/

I know about half the ppl I talk to even my oldest sister who was like a mom to me @ one time, she mentioned ''first ones don't last''...... Fooey on her I say lol I mean if the stars don't say its 'destiny', then ok; but why can't ppl be with their first bf or gf if they click and work together with one another and all? Others don't say such negative things but I see anything possible as well as what is probable.

I think if we continue to talk and not shut out , we will be fairly good right? But I would like the thoughts to go away. thanks for your suggestions, they are reassuring on the path of going on

Tsol25, though if he ever cheated on me, I highly doubt probability on taking him back (he the same with me so we're on the same page), you are strong in ways to give him a second chance. I know I probably couldn't do that.

thank you again for the positive feed back! I will continue on this path for he too is on it with me....

I hope you well! And good thoughts tour way