I care about my T because she is just a great person. Also because I have that time to myself, that is guaranteed time when someone is listening to me and engaged in conversation with me-- I don't get that very often outside of the T relationship!! Also, her unconditional positive reguard makes me feel good.

I WISH that I could be as ...unattached... to T as I am to other people I pay for services like my dentist/banker/etc. I don't get upset if I don't get to see THEM! But T is the ONE good place in my life... thats tough to not have it.