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Old Aug 04, 2011, 10:07 PM
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When I was a kid, I remember TRYING to tell my mom about some stuff that happened to me. I remember that more than once she would be acting like she was listening to me.. but then one of my brothers would need something from her... and you know what happened, she would put me on PAUSE and go run to them. I felt that this was a norm when I was a child.
YEP! I so relate to this Wepow. same thing happened to me but with older brothers AND sisters...... I didn't matter coz I was too young, too little, too ignorant-- whatever.... never could make the "grade" to be worthy of being heard or noticed.
so so sorry you experienced similar

traumas/abuses happened to me coz others always took presidence...

Quite fearful I don't even matter here at PC....
I read almost daily .. but.... to speak up shear terror....
too afraid of not being heard. (it feels so overwhelmingly terrifying........) People are so scary.

I think you're very brave to post and speak up
Way to go!

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Thanks for this!
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