OMG! (whispering) you guys got me all goofed up! I got to T's at 9:30 and I'm wondering what's going on! It's 9:45 and I'm still sitting out here! Turns out I'm half an hour early, I had planned to sit in Starbucks, only I forgot! Finally I got out my phone to see if he left me a message, and there I see my ACTUAL appointment time is TEN!. WHAT A DOOFUS! This is all in our head, people, work it out, it is NOT about the actual minutes, it's the FEEEEELINGS behind the minutes. I am SO embarrassed! Unfortunately, I only know the code for