Willow, just because you didn't catch the post where heather said what her surgery was, that doesn't mean you don't care, or that you're a fake.

It took me a long time to realize that sometimes caring is more about doing the nice little things. I used to feel like a fake, too, thinking that I was just saying stuff without *really* caring...but the thing is, saying a nice little something to someone who needs some support *is* caring.

So, I'm sorry, but I'm just not going to believe that you are a fake, or that you don't care. We've both been here a long time, and I know better.

*hugs*
mj