i know those feelings! i'm mad at mine because he's unemployed and instead of looking for a job he decides he's so stressed he deserves a vacation to the beach. but tonight when he comes home, i'm going to be expected to come sit with him at his parent's house with my thumb up my *** staring at the wall because he doesn't have the money to go anywhere. i get angry when i feel taken for granted.

good for you that you came to a safe place where you could vent instead of laying into the BF!!!