I'm glad that my little words could be to some help. You've helped me to see more clearly and to feel love in my darkest hours. You're one of the most lovable persons I've come across, so of course I'll listen to you. It's hard work dealing with a child, when there are issues like these involved. But when he's older, he will know that his mother helped him and loved him very much, when he was little.
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