Almost everyone has some kind of baggage going into relationships. It takes various forms. From a physical disability, bad habits, emotional damage, mental illnesses and the list could go on. I don't think it is fair to write a warning and cast such a negative picture on people who are bipolar. I know you talked about people who have bipolar and are in successful relationships and that its hard but what relationship isn't. If a relationship was so easy there would be less people getting divorced/breaking up/leaving a SO.