I can get this way with art as well- I love art! I love to make art! But then there are times I am like- eh- whatever I cant draw or paint and be like an unruly kid and just make a mess on the page rather than something constructive or just not do anything.
As far as talking- I dont know- Rarely talk with buds any more, only my boyfriend a lot.

I hope someone else can relate to you more and give more of suggestion.. I am not sure what it is