Wow! That is all I have to say for your husband.. no offense. It's not so much his behavior but how it makes YOU feel. You don't deserve a guilt trip, suffer insomnia and stomach cramps for making a little mistake. Don't get me started on the emotional pain inflicted on your child. That was cruel. Reminds me of my bro in law. I was invited to a birthday dinner he cooked for my sister. He tried to make the evening all about HIS great dinner, and the flower arrangement HE picked and made for her, and on and on and on all night. When he wasn't given enough attention, he sulked and finally picked an argument with my sis over a minor disagreement. Finally, he stormed off upstairs. I looked at my sister and said "who is today supposed to be about"? Selfish, emotionally immature people don't care who they hurt. Not to say that your husband is. But his behavior paints the picture.

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Funny how I hated when my narcissistic ex gf would always use the phrase "no offense, but" and then proceed to offend... as if those two little words made it all better. Now, I find myself using that phrase. But I am sincere when I use it, I assure you.