Thanks Yoda, Elysium and StrongerMan. All this could have been have been solved so easily because I admitted I simply got mixed up. I honestly think this was my minds way of blocking him out, if that makes any sense. If he wanted to be a good parent he could have let it go or I would have not even bothered to make an issue at all and pretend its my birthday. After all people delay their birthdays often.

StrongerMan - funny you mention narcissistic. He was involved in a legal suit and the other sides psychiatrist made the diagnosis of him being narcissistic. I've even seen him show psychopathic tendencies. He does act immature and doesn't listen to reason what so ever when he's mad. In his everyday interaction he appears very charming and caring with people he likes. I told him he needs help but I don't think he would ever get it because bullies and narcissists don't have the problem, only the people around them do. Seriously one day I'm thinking of writing a book about him and what's happened. It would make an interesting movie.

I'll tell you one weird story that happened 3 yrs ago. As some may know, he married another woman in a religious sense....supposedly in the U.S., I'm Canadian. He told me he was going for a week long examination for some neck pain and doing a sleep study. I sensed this was a lie. At the end of the week I'm at the dollar store and I saw this wife friend of ours. So she says "hey hi ....how was your trip to Florida"? He told her and her husband that he took us to Florida. I was stunned and dieing inside, fumbling with what to say. I just said "Oh it was good" as I turned shades of red. He actually took her disabled son to Disney World while we stayed home on March break. This sounds like something out of a movie and I swear every word is true.