Thanks Rainbow for your thoughts. I very much appreciate it. There is no way in h*ll that I will bring up the fees. It is and will remain a small wedge between us but who says we have to have 100% positive relationship with anyone let alone our T. She's good enough that she can help me with other stuff.

The extra fees also contribute to me feeling adamant that I will never call her again. I asked if I could text her if I ever needed to reschedule an appointment or needed to do some kind of business communication between sessions. She said that was fine. It shouldn't take her more than a few seconds to read a short text.