I've never personally been interested in having an open relationship, but I do believe it can work for some people. I don't believe it will work for you,
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I am not sure that I am secure enough to go through this
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. That's why. To me it sounds like you are doing this to win her back/keep her. I am afraid that if you agree to it, the end result will be devastating. For an open relationship, both partners need to say "yes, I want to do this and I'm ok with this". Going back from this decision will be incredibly difficult if not impossible.
Another poster posted this article, I think you should sit down and truly think about where your personal boundaries lie.
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Set...ries&id=560907
It seems like your wife is searching for external validation, does she struggle with self-esteem? Have you had less date nights in recent times? Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself.