.... I had a similar reaction once to one T with a misunderstanding and me having a complete overreaction ... we talked and talked about it at first the way you've been doing; then sort of put that aside and continued only it never really went away. A few months later it bubbled over again and finally the feelings were sorted through and the hurt left; I wish I knew the answer Sky, for me it seemed to be that time helped; I wish it was quicker and easier though.