thank you for the response, stormyangels. i was trying to ask without giving too much information, but i guess i'm not going to get a real answer unless i ask a real question..

i just found out something about my therapy that is totally blowing my mind. it's basically the circumstances under which i started treatment. i thought it was one way, and now it's looking like it was actually a totally other way. i plan to ask my therapist which way is the truth, and i wanted to know what her "obligations" might be to answer me truthfully (if at all).

i should add that i totally respect and adore this therapist and, until now, trusted her completely. now i'm just beginning to wonder if i was way off base, or if i'm making something out of nothing. i know i won't know for sure until i check it out, but i just wanted to have some idea before i go to my session.

thanks again in advance for any feedback.