I told T before he left, as I started to tear up that I dont
do well when he is gone. He had surprised with the new of
his vacation. I emailed him last week when I thought he hadn't
left town yet apologizing if he was actually on vacation at that
point. I got an email from him yesterday from the West coast.
In fact two emails. So he contacts me even when he is away.
However, as said in this thread, the sh.t always seems to hit the
fan while he is away. Why is this? Am I doing this on purpose
to make him feel guilty? I can say all of it is completely of my making,
like if my husband acts out towards me and I react self
destructively. Or maybe it just seems harder to deal with everyday
things when he is away.