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Originally Posted by tigergirl
 .... I'm curious about the coping skills you have? what do you do that helps while T is away? ... I understand the ache 
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Okay, first off have you seen the video associated with your signature tiger? It's hilarious!
Anyhoodle. Coping skills.
Well, I'm a big lister, lists everywhere. So I keep a list of the good things that happened during his absence.
I also keep a list of the things that come up that I want to talk about so they don't get buried or lost.
I always always always dream more during his absence (don't ask me why) so, you guessed it, I keep a list of dreams.
Most importantly though I
work to keep that connection with me, even when he is gone. It can be so darn ephemeral, but it does get easier to catch onto.