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Old Aug 08, 2011, 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted by tigergirl View Post
.... I'm curious about the coping skills you have? what do you do that helps while T is away? ... I understand the ache
Okay, first off have you seen the video associated with your signature tiger? It's hilarious!



Anyhoodle. Coping skills.

Well, I'm a big lister, lists everywhere. So I keep a list of the good things that happened during his absence.

I also keep a list of the things that come up that I want to talk about so they don't get buried or lost.

I always always always dream more during his absence (don't ask me why) so, you guessed it, I keep a list of dreams.

Most importantly though I work to keep that connection with me, even when he is gone. It can be so darn ephemeral, but it does get easier to catch onto.
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