where do i begin...i guess i could start with my estranged husband..well soon to be x husband..we were together for 12 yrs.. he was sober 8 months of the 12...finally the booze won...i couldnt take anymore..we have been split for almost 3 yrs...he promised he would never drink again...i never believed him....so away i stayed..everyone told me he had to do it on his own..i couldnt save him...well here i am now awaiting my divorce...and now he is met someone else..and is sober.....who would have ever imagined...i am angry...so much of my life has been affected,destroyed my booze...if this is what i so thought was the right thing to do then why does it feel so wrong.....and why did i let booze win and steal everything away????? sorry for the rant...is this just my codependant kicking in....so confused