i am so confused. i went on a date a few days ago and it was really nice, except he said some off hand comments that left me feeling really confused, empty and insecure. i should also note he has been in an on and off relationship with some lame chick who doesn't have anything going for her, for 4-5 years.

he said the following things on our date:
(1) mentioned his "ex" and crazy she is "but that he loves her."
(2) said he likes blondes ( i am a brunette)
(3) periodically mentioned how his roommates "ex" worked with so and so whenever we talked about something in media/fashion.

i mean i feel like this date was just protocol bc we had been texting during the summer about getting together. he did say that i'm a smart girl who has her stuff together and we did make out...

we havent spoken since our date. part of me doesn't want to have anything to do with him because he is still hung up on that girl even though i know i am a way better catch.

am i making the right choice by just closing the door on this guy? i know i deserve someone better.