Yea ... it's like I am not stupid, I know what my 'options' are, I know that 'x' has worked in the past, I am open to you suggesting 'y', but if I say no to a question, I should not have to repeat it to the point where I feel uncomfortable. If I have an issue at work I resolve it at work. Or maybe he is right and I don't really have anything to be blah about at all.