You know him better than I do. After reading his comments I question the continued validity of some of the positives. Listing needing him emotionally is troubling, especially if he knows you feel that way.

Does anything in this article have a bearing on the relationship: http://counsellingcentral.com/psycho...ive-behaviour/

Yes, as I said, I think he is good at finding ways to discount his behavior and be a victim at your expense.