i ended up being really scared and shut down in my session today but i did managet to say a few things.when i am like this a lot of times i'm not even thare emotionally.at one point she said something that must have got me angry or struck a nerve because i totally shut down.i had started to repond and bam shut down and said nothing but was angry.my T noticed this and asked what i was going to say .i couldnt repond.in fact at this point even though it was only less than a minute after what she said for the life of me i couldnt remember what she said or what i was going to sayshe than said something like"come on granite what were you going to say??i know i am a total blabber mouth and if i had just stoped talking you would have said what you were going to say"

i know it doesnt seem such a big deal what she said but it made me feel bad for her.i felt she was putting herself down and being really hard on herself when it wasnt her fault that i couldnt remember what she said.i know it was just my gut reaction to open my mouth to say what was going on on my head but it really passed in seconds i was never going to respond.i felt so bad i pleaded with her that i just forgot what i was going to say.

do any of your T tend to put themselves down some ?
does it bother you whaen they do??