obj,
You are right.The reason why i feel my son will become a crybaby is 'cause as you know watching my mum cry all the time made me unable to cope with my emotions.So now when I'm overwhelmed i just do what i grew up watching.....cry.Its easy to put blame on the parent for every unfortunate behavior one has ... now obviously i feel as if i am passing the same trait to my son.Imagine him having a meltdown during a boardroom meeting at 35 .
You ask what i feel after the breakdown....just guilt and embarrassment....failure as a mother.