The way I understand the treatment would not explain what you have written in your blog!!!! I have never been told I was borderline and if someone said those things to me your T has said to you I would me running for the mountains a long time ago. My guess is he really does not have a clue what he is doing. Those statements he has made to you are unacceptable under any therapeudic circumstances. I also about wanted to up-chuck when I read about the social workers for the kids. Borderline has been a trash can diagnoses for a lot of people and it seems to some quote professionals to mean they can treat people horridly. To me you sound like you are making sense.

The other thing is about self harm. Not everyone who does this is borderline but, it is a great way for you to be labeled and to be treated with less respect.

I have done fairly well with self injury by coming to the conclusion that mentally I know it is bad for me cause T and everyone here says it is so I try to do good things for myself so I will be more healthy. It's kinda like flying blind but it worked for me.

Not to say I don't have issues with other ways that I do not treat myself well, or that the thoughts don't pop into my mind.

Good luck speaking with him. I wonder if you should arrange to have his supervisor with you?