i always worry about people saying thats not enough to be mad at. but if it effecxts you after ir then it is enough. i hear people saying stuff about abuse all the time that i know they werent abused so what does there opinion matter because there the usual no it alls that comment on eveything but when summit happens to them they will take all resources available for help because there hurt. I know people that use a scale to judge things all the time. I often dont say anything because i would be afraid of exposing myself and they cop that summit had happened to me so i ususally walk away or dont listen when they start. Any abuse is bad and shudnt happen but unfortuantly there are some idiots out there that just dont no what it feels like so they say on the scale of things it aint bad doesnt mean it ant really bad to the person who suffered it