I don't know if this is really a viable option or if anything would come of it, but have though of contacting some free legal aid about your situation? I know when I lived in DC, they had free legal aid offices in the court houses, where you could go and they could offer you some advice. You could also try checking law schools to see if they have any clinics where law students get to practice (before they go.. into.. practice...) (my mom runs one that's for non profits).

Lynn, I have to be honest, I am so, so grateful for your inner strength. Not only do you provide amazing love and support for your daughters, but you bring so much to PC. I value every post you make, every question you answer in Q&A, simply everything you do for us.

We're trying to be here for you, just as much as you're here for everyone.