I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. Please... at T's... don't sit too close to hubby, as you might not feel safe? Allow the T to direct the session... let T see how hubby really is (and T won't rely upon empty promises, believe me..but will see "halo" data...) If you wish to stay pretty quiet in session, that would be ok.

Take care of you, 2b... you are appreciated here.