Thanks AAAAA. I thought the lawyer may be right because my friend who was a police officer said the rules had changed about those issues the year that she quit. She wasn't sure what changed so she told me to question it. I didn't think it sounded right though. Maybe I misunderstood her or maybe I need a new lawyer.

I was just really worried that my past would hurt me as a mother but hearing from other people really helps. I would never tell any of my friends about my past because it is way too personal and I wanted to hear from people who have been through similar stuff and felt the same way. I know now because of everyone's help and advice that I can be a great mother no matter what. I can decide to not let my past interfere with the present or my future. I am definitely keeping my baby and I am so excited about it. I know it will be hard but it will be worth it. Thanks again!