There is absolutely nothing wrong with your remaining in the circumstances you are in, if, after careful consideration, you feel that is best, at this time, (And maybe for a good while to come.) It sounds like you have carefully considered your options. Also, it does not sound like you are placing yourself or a child in danger by remaining there. Reality must be faced. I am a firm believer that there can be circumstances that make being in "a marriage of convenience" a sensible option. You sound reasonable and sensible. Your challenge is in how to best "manage" the stresses of co-habitation, while that seems the best arrangement. And it well may be, for now.
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