(((((((Rainbow)))))))))) can you write them out for her as well?

I left a counselor at the start of this year because they wouldn't say they cared (let alone loved me). I was so desperate to hear that someone cared and they just wouldn't give those words. Looking back now I know the actions were there but we can get so fixated by needing to hear something or wanting something particular to happen than when it doesn't; our emotional response is super extreme and can be so painful and then the rest of our response can follow. Even though you know your T does love you; I can really understand wanting to hear those words and in the way you want to hear them