Thanks unhappyguy. The next time the subject comes up I will ask him to stop talking about it. You're right, I do need to set boundaries in our relationship, I know that he has them and I always try to respect them. As far as telling him how I feel, I'm not so sure I can do that. I don't want our friendship to change and I don't want him to become uncomfortable around me. Thanks for posting unhappyguy, you made me feel less alone.