I do identify with the "Do I make T angry?" worry. If I do, will they be less motivated to help me?

Then again, I always worry they are not really motivated in the first place (human nature being what it is and all) and that it's all a racket. I sometimes wish I knew more about T such as their religious/political affiliations, how much they keep up with their craft, and what kind of spouse/father are they.

Am I talking to a nice person who accepts me as I am or a sexist narcissist who hasn't read a research article in ten years that will just take my money and focus only on what they think is really an issue or what they want to work with me on? Side note* Do I really wonder ab. that with my T? No way I would broach that subject no matter how much I want to know. Talk about potentially putting them on the defensive!

Just call me worry wart.