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Hi ~ I'd be a bit upset too, but it's PROBABLY just like you mentioned -- a superficial "crush" that won't go anywhere. The good thing is that it doesn't look like he's acted on it. It's all been talk.
I think the two of you should take some time before you start a family. It sounds like you need to communicate a bit better and be SURE that this relationship is what you both want. It would be a tragedy to have children only to have the relationship break up later.
Maybe some couples counseling would help -- it surely can't hurt. If you're both committed to this relationship, counseling will enhance it and help you both to learn to trust & communicate better.
Best of luck & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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