(((Sarah Michelle))), you know, I am sure that your T regretted it afterwards. Patients must make a difference for a T too. I am sure that unless they are totally devoid of any empathy or compassion it affects a T to let go of the good ones. (Not that I would know as I'm not really one of the good ones ) But today that guy that I was really upset that he wasn't calling me back, called me back btw. So now it's just 1/2 of the romantic figures I was agonizing over who are still incommunicado & 1/2 is pretty reasonable. 1/2 I can deal with. Thanks for the hugs all, we can put this thread to rest now...