No, actually I was trying to figure out how to NOT eat the 'verboten' food so as not to hurt her feelings. The dream went on where I had to take care of a baby in another room and when I returned I discovered that T had invited other people to the meal and I was relieved because it might not be apparent that I would avoid that particular dish but also I wasn't able to sit at the table because the baby would not let me put her down. So, there were 2 ways of me not partaking without her noticing.