gosh @sad meke mek u are a sweet girl who got caught with a muck. he is using your fear of the social norms to coerce u into accepting abuse from him. do u really see a future with him? would u seriously wish to see any good friend of urs undergo what u are undergoing ? what would u advise her? do you think u cannot break up with him? make it public then he will not try to force himself upon u. dont u think avoiding all contact with him will show him he cant take u for granted? u deserve a great life with someone more understanding, caring putting ur happiness on par with his desires, make sure u r treted physically, mentally and sexually with respect u will find someone who is comfortable with himself as much as with u. u will see the calm and love in every aspect of thier life....u deserve that nothing less....for a change love yourself....... u are that special.every girl in this world is............take care