I have told my bf about my PTSD, my anxiety issues, my sexual abuse history and other traumas. I believe honesty is the best policy, it helped my bf understand some of my behaviors and why I got jumpy and nervous sometimes.

Bf has also told me things from his past and his struggles with depression, it never changed how I felt about him, except maybe feeling more comfortable with him because he was so open and honest with me and has never hid anything from me.

If it changes how this woman feels then she isn't the right woman for you. Someone that really cares about you and is in it for the long run won't leave you over you telling them about your mental health issues.

I wish you the best of luck.