As I mentioned earlier as psychiatrists report from the other side of a law suit, did say he seems narcissistic. I guess for now, I have to figure out how to out smart this kind of personality and how to not let it bother me.

I have never told my remaining siblings(brother and sister) about my husband /marriage problem. I was hesitant to tell my older brother because he has a genetic cardio myopathy heart problem and I didn't want to worry him. I finally did tell him I was having problems for the last 5 yrs but I didn't go into details. I also just told my husband( in an email) that I revealed this to my brother and now I'm wondering if this will make him super mad.

Since bullies and abusers rely on secrecy to keep up their antics I'm hoping the fact my brother now knows he's not perfect will make him think twice ...IDK though, he's very unpredictable.