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Originally Posted by Perna
I don't find "cheating" a useful word. I would wonder why my husband was spending time online in "virtual sexual encounters" instead of doing something more useful with his time during the day? I would probably discuss it with him, learn more about him and his motivations and what's going on with him in his life.
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Really Perna?
If your hub were taking part in virtual sex, that wouldn't hurt your feelings?
I think that talking with him about it, to see his perspective would be helpful. I just know that I'd be very insecure and unhappy ~ it's "second nature" to me. Hard for me to imagine being able to accept incidents like that.