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Old Aug 12, 2011, 11:08 AM
confuseduk confuseduk is offline
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Hi everyone, I'm new to this and have a question. I've had some bad experiences with therapists in the past so was reluctant to see anyone else. Recently I found a counsellor who gave me lots of reassurance via e-mail before I went to see her. She's been really good and doesn't push me with things as she knows I have trust issues as well. After each session I send an e-mail to thank her for her time and she always replies.Last week I had a really painful session, and I e-mailed her after to thank her but she never replied, I worried all week that she was annoyed with me or I'd said too much. I've seen her this week and apologised for last session and she asked if I was worried cos she hadn't replied, I lied and said no. Anyway I sent a thank you this week and no reply again and she's on holiday now so I'm worried again. i feel it's polite to message and it makes me feel better when she replies and I don't message again til next time. It helps me to know she's ok with me after I've gone. So now I'm worried, why has she suddenly stopped replying? Am I in the wrong for messaging with a thank you? Sorry for the long msg but I could do with an opinion s thanks