WOW Rose76 I think you hit it right! The rescuer in me wants to come kick his butt for being so insensitive! I have known other men just like this and am so thankful I was able to get away! Lynn I hate to say this but don't think he will ever change, I know this by experience. If nothing else stop letting him make you sick! My Girlfriend used to tell me don't let them have your power! Which is so true because without that you will not be much good and your daughter needs you! I know I am repeating some of what was said before me but I just had to write it out in my words. Thanks