I guess it is cultural... but when i see these "I am not honest to others about my FEELINGS" posts, I go "so what? you are not supposed to wear emotions on sleeve... you are supposed to be proper around people". As I said, i struggle with this concept... but that is how i was brought up. don't cry, squeal or laugh too laugh too loud when there's people around. don't yell at people even if you have reason...