Hello. I agree with Purple Heart about meditation, and yoga is great as well. These are just some suggestions... I don't know if you are in a relationship, but if you are, maybe try watching erotic movies (that you can both agree on) with your partner? There are lots of erotic novels out there as well. Explore what turns you on while sober, with an open and honest attitude...even if it's something as simple as taking a bath together.
Good luck!