I'm going through a divorce right now and have three kids. They are sweet, loving, well-grounded kids but I fear this will truly devastate them. None of them has been sleeping well, and we're going to send my oldest daughter (age 14) to a therapist because she definitely seems unhappy. Been trying very hard to be amicable about the divorce, but I'm emotionally shattered and it's hard at times not to break down.

I am a stay-at-home/work-at-home mom and trying to find a full-time job with benefits so the kids and I can stay in the house.

Feel free to PM me any time -- either of you (anyone, actually) -- if you want to chat or just vent.