I'm sorry you ever had to deal with that, allme. After what you've gone through this week, it really blows that you had to handle yet another situation. As if yours weren't enough! There's no room for blame to be placed on anyone in this situation. You're bipolar, your brother is probably bipolar, your mother is bipolar, & your dad probably has a hard time trying to juggle all of the polarities around him! Hopefully it all gets sorted out soon. My wishes are with you.
Have a good, relaxed day today dear. God knows you deserve it!!